Sermon Notes

BELIEVE BELONG BECOME BUILD

Mike encourages us to embrace change and overcome resistance as a new year approaches. He emphasizes that true and lasting transformation comes not from sheer willpower but from pursuing godliness, having a close relationship with God, and implementing practical systems. The talks contrast the "old ways" of comfort, conformity, and time-wasting with the "new ways" of a renewed mind and a purpose-driven life in Christ. The church's mission (MCBC: Meet Jesus, Connect, Become, Commit) is presented as a framework for growth. Mike acknowledges that change is a difficult and messy process involving resistance from the world, the flesh, and the devil, but assures listeners that with God's power and consistent, planned effort, they can overcome these struggles and achieve their goals. A time management matrix is introduced as a key tool to help individuals focus on important, non-urgent tasks (preparation and planning) to proactively build a better life.

Opening Call: A Call to More

  • The pastor opens by calling the congregation to “more” — beyond habitual sin, hurts, and unhealthy patterns.

  • Recognizes the common resignation (“this is just who I am”), and insists genuine change is possible through God’s power, not mere willpower.

  • Cultural note: New Year resolutions (diet, exercise) are often superficial without being anchored in God.

  • Personal anecdote: A humorous “Sunday cheat day” shows how indulgence and inconsistent habits shape the week; the point is that consistency matters and strategies must fit the person.

  • Observation: Comfort and routine can mask destructive choices; change is difficult but necessary.

Theology of Change: Who God Is and What He Wants

  • God’s character is unchanging; He is for His people—“the same yesterday, today, and forever.”

  • God calls believers to godliness, not mere self-improvement; transformation is the work of the Spirit and the Word reshaping the mind and heart.

Scripture: Examination, Identity, and Renewal

  • Highlight: Psalm 139:23–24 — “Search me, O God, and know my heart… see if there be any wicked way in me, and lead me in the way everlasting.”

    • Context: David invites God’s searching light to expose and direct his heart.

    • Application: Begin the new year in humility, asking God to reveal and correct hidden patterns; stop hiding behind personality excuses.

  • Highlight: Jeremiah 29:11 — “I know the thoughts that I think toward you….”

    • Context: God’s promise to exiles in Babylon, assuring His sovereign plans for their future.

    • Application: Trust God’s heart for your growth and good; align ambitions with His purposes rather than self-help goals.

  • Highlight: 1 Timothy 4:8 — “Bodily exercise profits little, but godliness is profitable unto all things….”

    • Context: Paul instructs Timothy to prioritize spiritual training over physical training.

    • Application: Exercise and diet have some benefit, but prioritize godliness—it benefits all areas of life now and eternally.

  • Highlight: 2 Corinthians 5:17 — “If anyone is in Christ, he is a new creature; old things have passed away; behold, all things have become new.”

    • Context: New creation realities in Christ through reconciliation.

    • Application: The Christian life is a continual process of the old passing away and the new emerging; actively participate with the Spirit.

  • Highlight: Romans 12:1–2 — “Present your bodies a living sacrifice… be not conformed to this world, but be transformed by the renewing of your mind.”

    • Context: Paul’s call to worshipful living and mental renewal.

    • Application: Change requires sacrifice; habits are often bodily, but true transformation flows from renewing the mind with God’s truth.

  • Highlight: Ephesians 4 / Colossians (general emphasis) — Put off the old man, put on the new.

    • Application: Deliberately shed old patterns and adopt new Christlike ones in daily life.

  • Highlight: Colossians 3:1–2 — “Seek those things which are above… set your affection on things above.”

    • Application: Aim desires and emotions at Christ and His Kingdom to avoid deflated, worldly living.

  • Highlight: Isaiah 43:19 — “Remember not the former things… behold, I will do a new thing.”

    • Context: God’s promise of a new work for Israel.

    • Application: Stop replaying the past; focus on God’s new work in you.

  • Highlight: Hebrews 9:16 — The testament is enacted by the death of the testator.

    • Context: The New Covenant inaugurated by Christ’s death.

    • Application: Our pattern mirrors Christ—death to old ways, resurrection into new life; real change follows this death-to-life pathway.

  • Highlight: 1 Thessalonians 2:18 — “Satan hindered us.”

    • Context: Paul’s ministry opposition.

    • Application: Expect spiritual resistance when pursuing change.

  • Highlight: Luke 22 (Peter sifted) — Satan desires to sift believers.

    • Application: Trials refine faith; stand firm in Christ.

  • Highlight: Mark 4 (Parable of the Sower) — The enemy steals the seed.

    • Application: Guard the Word in your heart; nurture it to bear fruit.

  • Highlight: James 4:7 — “Resist the devil and he will flee from you.”

    • Application: Resistance is decisive; victory is Christ’s strength in you.

  • Highlight: 1 Peter 5:8–9 — “Be sober… resist him, firm in the faith.”

    • Application: Stay vigilant; resist the enemy steadfastly.

MCBC Mission: Meet, Connect, Become, Commit

  • M — Meet Jesus

    • Evangelism is essential; no one reaches Heaven without Jesus.

  • C — Connect with the Church

    • Christians cannot thrive in isolation; belonging to a local body is vital for growth and accountability.

  • B — Become a Disciple

    • Discipleship is prioritized through lessons and relationships; follow those further along.

  • C — Commit to Ministry

    • Serving solidifies growth and channels purpose outward.

“Believe, Belong, Become, Build” Framework

  • Believe: Know God through Jesus Christ; salvation is foundational.

  • Belong: Know each other; overcome fear and self-loathing by honest connection. Shared humanity and struggles emerge in fellowship.

  • Become: Become like Christ; discover and live your God-given purpose. Christians are “more than conquerors” and should live proactively, not in crisis mode.

  • Build: Live the purpose; after learning it, embody it in ministry and daily life.

Practical Life Observations and Examples

  • Planning matters: Without planning, unhealthy habits emerge (desperate grocery runs, fast food reliance).

  • Humor about “nugs” and fast food illustrates the pull of comfort foods and the need for intentionality.

  • Warning against settling for survival: Aim for growth, excellence, and purpose beyond entertainment and endless scrolling.

The Dynamics of Change: Old Ways vs. New Ways

  • Old Ways:

    • Comfort and conformity to the world’s patterns.

    • Excuses framed as “personality” or “realism” often mask negativity or depression.

    • The world, flesh, and the devil collude to keep you stuck.

  • New Ways:

    • Transformation through renewing the mind.

    • Putting off the old and putting on the new in Christ.

    • Seeking and setting affection on things above.

  • The Middle: Death and Life

    • Death to old habits, resurrection into godly living.

    • The in-between is messy: spiritual warfare, internal cravings, relational pushback.

    • Weightlifting and withdrawal analogies: resistance is necessary for growth; pains are real but temporary.

Identity and Capacity in Christ

  • Body, soul, spirit: Without Christ, you are “deflated”; salvation “inflates” your spirit to function according to design.

  • Set affections above to avoid deflated living; habitual conformity retards growth.

  • Become “dangerous” to the enemy by steeping your mind in God’s Word and practicing resistance.

Applications for Today

  • Pray Psalm 139:23–24 daily: Invite God’s searching and leading.

  • Prioritize godliness over resolutions: 1 Timothy 4:8.

  • Present your body as a living sacrifice: Romans 12:1—expect discomfort.

  • Renew your mind with Scripture: Romans 12:2—saturate your thought-life with God’s truth.

  • Put off/put on: Ephesians 4, Colossians—make deliberate daily choices in habits and attitudes.

  • Seek and set: Colossians 3:1–2—aim desires and emotions at Christ and His Kingdom.

  • Resist: James 4:7; 1 Peter 5:8–9—actively oppose the world, flesh, and devil.

  • Connect with the church: Growth requires community; discipleship and accountability provide structure.

  • Commit to ministry: Live your purpose; serving anchors change in mission.

  • Plan practically: Schedule meals, reduce fast food, manage time—execution matters.

Encouragement and Warnings

  • Expect opposition: Satan hinders; culture resists; some people will pull you down when you try to rise.

  • Christ is greater: He enables resistance and delivers transformation.

  • Change is simple to understand but hard to execute; consistency in the Word, prayer, community, and service is essential.

Closing Picture: Learning to Ride

  • Learning to ride a bike: Watching, wobbling, frustration, falling—all precede confident movement.

  • Exhortation: Stick with the process; embrace resistance; focus on Christlikeness and purposeful living.


“Fight the Resistance: Systems for Godly Change” — Sermon Recap

Opening Illustration: Learning Through Resistance

  • Story: Teaching daughters to ride bikes—holding the seat, guiding toward grass, urging “just pedal.”

    • Insight: Fear triggers failure; focus fosters progress.

    • Result: Through struggle and practice, a new family rhythm of riding together emerged.

  • Parallel: Braces for crooked teeth

    • Painful, costly, incremental—tightened every few weeks.

    • Point: Change requires discomfort, cost, and consistency; shortcuts don’t work.

Thesis: Change Is Possible—but Hard and Requires Resistance

  • Believers have the Holy Spirit and can change, but it is not easy.

  • Confusion and fear are normal; progress comes through practical, consistent steps.

  • Discipleship pathway:

    • Believe

    • Belong

    • Become

    • Build

Discipleship in Real Life

  • Joy of discipling others:

    • Walk with people in failure and repentance.

    • Encourage them to “get back on the bike.”

    • Change happens through persistent discipleship.

Principle 1: Consistency Over Occasional Effort

  • It’s not what you do occasionally; it’s what you do consistently that changes you.

  • Examples:

    • “This is just a season”: Persistent absence creates culture—change it.

    • Church attendance and spiritual disciplines cannot be occasional.

    • Health fads (e.g., creatine) are not substitutes for consistent training.

    • Occasional Bible reading won’t transform you; consistent reading will.

  • Warning: Don’t be a “poser”—occasional right actions don’t build identity or maturity.

Tool: The Urgent/Important Quadrant (Time & Habit Management)

  • Important + Urgent: Crisis, deadlines, problems — Do it.

  • Important + Not Urgent: Preparation, planning, soul-nurturing — Schedule it.

  • Not Important + Urgent: Deception — needless interruptions, notifications — Delegate or limit it.

  • Not Important + Not Urgent: Excess/waste — mindless scrolling, endless entertainment — Eliminate it.

  • Live “above the line” (important categories), avoiding deception and excess below.

  • Practical examples:

    • Preparation: Pantry purge, grocery planning, meal prep with Tupperware, lay out workout clothes by the bed.

    • Deception: Constant notifications, group texts, unnecessary digital distractions.

    • Excess: Nightly TV, habitual scrolling, casual gaming, shopping without need.

Application: Plan and Schedule Your Life

  • Use a planner to align values and roles:

    • Identify top values (godliness, family, health, vocation).

    • Assess roles (dad, husband, pastor, friend).

    • Build your schedule around what you value—live in Important + Not Urgent.

  • Convert tasks to calendar actions:

    • Tasks remain undone unless scheduled.

    • Move tasks from “nouns” to “verbs” with time-specific action.

    • Examples: Clean the kitchen—set a time. Closet purge—set an alarm. Meal plan—write a menu and shop.

Systems Over Goals

  • Quote (James Clear, Atomic Habits): “You don’t rise to the level of your goals; you always fall to the level of your systems.”

  • Application:

    • Avoid extreme vows (e.g., daily 90-minute workouts).

    • Start small, sustainable systems:

      • Modify coffee routine (no sugar for two weeks).

      • Lay out workout clothes nightly.

      • Assign specific page ranges for daily reading.

    • Systems sustain change even during travel or schedule disruptions.

Practical Health & Discipline Examples

  • Micro-workouts: If only 10 minutes, run in place for five—intensity over perfection.

  • Hotel exercise: Use body-weight routines or a video—no excuses.

  • Meal planning: Decide weekly meals; shop and store them to remove nightly stress.

  • Schedule relationships:

    • Date your spouse; put it on the calendar.

    • Parenting, friendship, stewardship improve with planned attention.

Spiritual Anchors and Scripture Applications

  • The Holy Spirit empowers change:

    • Highlight: “You got the Spirit of God inside of you.” See Romans 8:11; Galatians 5:16–25.

  • Resist the devil and the flesh:

    • Highlight: “Resist the devil. He’ll flee.” See James 4:7; 1 Peter 5:8–9.

  • Renew your mind; pursue godliness:

    • Highlight: “Let’s renew our minds. Get in the Bible.” See Romans 12:2; Colossians 3:1–10.

  • Godliness is profitable:

    • Highlight: “Godliness is profitable in all things.” See 1 Timothy 4:8.

  • Belonging and building—church discipleship:

    • Highlight: Fellowship and accountability foster change. See Hebrews 10:24–25; Proverbs 27:17; Acts 2:42–47.

Key Points

  1. Change requires resistance and discomfort; don’t expect ease.

  2. Consistency beats occasional effort—habits form identity.

  3. Live “above the line”: prioritize important, non-urgent preparation and soul care.

  4. Convert tasks to scheduled actions; control your hours.

  5. Build systems, not just goals—small, repeatable routines create lasting change.

  6. Belong to the church, become like Christ through discipleship, and build others up—live for purpose.

  7. Resist the devil and your flesh; the Spirit empowers godliness and renewal.

Who God Is

  • God is present and patient—like a Father guiding children through falls toward growth.

  • God provides the Holy Spirit to empower change and strengthen resistance.

  • God’s wisdom offers a practical path of discipleship anchored in community and the Word.

  • God values order, stewardship, and renewal—calling believers to live purposefully and sober-minded.

Who You Are in Christ

  • You are indwelt by the Holy Spirit—capable of godly change.

  • You are called to belong—part of a body that supports and holds you accountable.

  • You are a disciple-in-progress—meant to become like Christ and to build others.

  • You are a steward—of time, body, relationships, and mind—charged to live above the line.

How to Live in Today’s Culture

  • Reject the lure of constant notifications, endless entertainment, and unplanned living.

  • Choose preparation over crisis: plan meals, schedule workouts, set reading goals.

  • Create systems for spiritual practices:

    • Daily Bible reading (even one chapter takes under five minutes).

    • Prayer in quiet moments (redeem idle time).

    • Weekly church involvement and small group accountability.

  • Exercise discernment:

    • Limit apps or platforms that keep you “below the line.”

    • Delegate and silence nonessential interruptions.

    • Replace passive leisure with purposeful rest and soul-nurturing habits.

Pastor’s Final Exhortation

  • “Be godly this year. Change can happen. Put systems in place. Fight the resistance. Resist the devil. Renew your mind. Get in the Bible. Clean yourself up. You can do discipleship. You can lose the weight. You can be a better spouse, parent, and friend. I’m not super disciplined—but a few small systems keep my feet to the fire.”

Suggested Next Steps

  • Belong: Commit to the church community; join a group for accountability.

  • Become: Start a simple, daily Bible reading plan; schedule prayer.

  • Build: Begin discipling another believer; meet regularly.

  • Systemize:

    • Plan weekly meals and workouts.

    • Lay out clothes and tools the night before.

    • Schedule tasks with time-specific blocks.

    • Limit or remove apps that pull you below the line.

Scripture Highlights

  • Psalm 139:23–24

  • Jeremiah 29:11

  • 1 Timothy 4:8

  • 2 Corinthians 5:17

  • Romans 12:1–2

  • Ephesians 4

  • Colossians 3:1–10

  • Isaiah 43:19

  • Hebrews 9:16

  • 1 Thessalonians 2:18

  • Luke 22

  • Mark 4

  • James 4:7

  • 1 Peter 5:8–9

  • Romans 8:11

  • Galatians 5:16–25

  • Hebrews 10:24–25

  • Proverbs 27:17

  • Acts 2:42–47